Have you ever take time to consider how powerful Simon says.
How often do you give yourself time just to set.
In peace.
Apart from the noise and a hostile one the boss Allworth everyday life to appreciate.
Silence.
I mean other than quite a creative world.
Do we live in quite a rapid world at a fast pace quite rapidly and extensively evolving world.
Pressure.
Stress.
J arse.
The man's.
Tension.
Crisis.
What is the one thing that you feel could become your greatest and most powerful ally.
In the context of any life coaching conversation or interaction that you have.
Have you ever noticed how uncomfortable and impatient some people become when they're presented with.
Silence.
I appreciate in this video I've turned right down Haven't I.
I'm not gung ho going a million miles an hour.
Your mind might be.
It may not be.
See.
When I am interacting with people soon I'm working things out.
Some laterally quite an extrovert as clean the.
As a preference.
By the way it's not who I am it's just a preference.
I struggle to work out what's going on.
Inside me if I'm not given are presented with silence on the side of me.
I've hired as mentors and life coaches in the past who seemed to be more driven by teaching me and impressing
me and coaching me.
Then just understanding me.
Uh the question that I always asked was this.
You give me silence and your undivided attention.
How did it ever understand me.
And I'm guessing that was true for me is true for you.
Homework time or silence.
Do you bed chalet ever again.
Other people.
Because in the last video will look to the larger of inference.
And we the four levels stages of communication conversation interaction is through conversations and
interactions that the world moves forward.
But it's also through conversations on interactions that relationships fall apart and that the world
also falls apart.
What would happen if people Kim besse her.
Rather than trying to have all the answers and get it right and impress and teach and instruct and advise.
So it just became better at giving each other.
More silence.
What's going on inside of you right now.
Unfortunately.
What are you thinking about.
As I'm not seeing too much.
What I would like you to think about just for a mass.
Is whether there's silence there I'm offering you're partially on some levels.
Is also presenting you with more time.
To reflect.
You see the only time in wetch the only way through which we're going to be able to understand those
that we call church or mantar.
This by I actually believed in not listening twice as much as for me.
Speak.
But this is one of the biggest problems most people have in life.
Most people would rather be hurt.
Than here.
Is this true for you.
Is it not true for you.
Is it truth for.
Someone that you know.
How true might it be for those that you go into court.
Silence.
This isn't a theory.
It's not a life coaching model.
It's not a frame work.
It's not a like a psychological theory.
It just because it's none of these things.
Please don't undermine for a second the power of this one little word.
See here's an exercise for you for you carry on with the rest of this course.
Go and find someone someone that you know a friend a family member loved one husband wife.
Sit down and interact with some.
And rather than seeking to speak.
Seek first to offer a silence lessened and hear.
And see for yourself how the quality and the calibre of the conversation changes.
Probably not so this video too frustrating.
Look forward to seeing again.
The next.